We tend to chat all the time with our partners, but often not about what really counts – the sort of topics that clear the air, that reintroduce a spirit of fun, that draw us together, that make us remember what is really special about being part of a couple.

The cards cover five categories:

• Appreciation

• Aspiration

• Desire

• Forgiveness

• Growth

Questions cover topics such as:

• What I really admire about you is…
• When appreciative friends discuss us, what do you think they might celebrate in us?
• How would you like to come back together again at the end of every day?

• If you never improved one bit, I’d still…

• The trick to understanding why I can sometimes be difficult is to remember that…